As most of my regular followers know, I recently lost my husband of fifteen years to pancreatic cancer. The journey experienced by Larry and I has been documented extensively through various social media outlets and I was considering gathering them all and publishing them in a coherent memoir. I have not yet gathered the strength to handle this task but hope at some point it will represent part of my healing process.
I recently met someone who has been able to share his journey as his husband succumbed to this disease after a thirty three year relationship of their own.
David G. Hallman’s August Farewell is an honest, loving and incredibly moving document of the changes and damage that pancreatic cancer wreaks on the patient and their caregivers, as well as displaying how lives lived in love will beget love and support from those who surround them.
Mr. Hallman’s story paralleled mine in that when the final diagnosis was given, there was very little time left and the focus shifted to providing comfort and relief in their last moments together. The shared vignettes of of Mr. Hallman and Mr. Conklin’s lives together prior to the diagnosis, set the stage for their final moments together.
Given that my husband’s passing is quite fresh, I found solace in that there was someone who experienced the same fears, the same comforts and the same love as I had. In reading August Farewell , I found equal opportunity for laughter and tears. Mr. Hallman’s memoir has helped ease some of my pain, alleviated my fears and offered me permission to take time to grieve.
I for one thank Mr. Hallman for sharing his and Bill’s journey with me. Thank you for this glimpse into a story I know all too well myself.